Giving Thanks

Honoring a promise made to the late Quogue Village Historian and keeper of the flame Pat Shuttleworth, At Quaquanantuck is happy to share once again—even if it’s not in newsprint that can be put up on the refrigerator anymore—its annual reflection on just a few of the many things for which all of us who are lucky enough to spend time in this blessed community can be truly grateful.

Autumn sky. —A. Botsford Photo

On the meteorological front, we can all be extremely thankful that 2019 was another off year for hurricanes landing on the eastern seaboard. Still, we must always honor the lessons of the past by remaining vigilant, heeding evacuation warnings, and following safety protocols when a major storm has the East End even tangentially in its sights. At Quaquanantuck hopes that local residents paid close attention to the total devastation of the Bahamas from Hurricane Dorian, which offers a dire indication of what we can expect if a major storm hits the South Fork dead on. 

We can be thankful for, and humbled by, the courage and community spirit of the members of the Quogue Volunteer Fire Department, ready to make whatever sacrifices are called for to ensure the safety and protect the property of all residents.firehouse thx

And we can be grateful for the fire department providing: fire safety lessons for kids, the Halloween Ghost Parade, support services for Santa’s visit to the Village Green, the Easter Egg hunt, the annual Open House, and the upcoming pancake breakfast and Chinese auction at the firehouse on Sunday, December 1, from 8 a.m. to noon to help us all regroup at the end of the long weekend of feasting and family gatherings. 

Always ready to step up and attend to the needs of the community, the QFD this year went the extra mile, making the Firehouse available for a wide array of Quogue Library programming during the extensive renovation and expansion of the facility on Quogue Street. police-thx.jpg

Likewise we can be thankful that we are blessed with the talented teams of people who work for the Village of Quogue and serve in village government, in the Village Office, on the police force, and out on the roads and bays: their dedication and community spirit translates into a better quality of life for all of 1122

We can be grateful that our beautiful Community Hall is a center for the performing arts on eastern Long Island, home to the Quogue Junior Theater Troupe and the Hampton Theatre Company as well as the Quogue Chamber Music series, all possible because of the support of the fine folks in Village Hall, donors, subscribers, volunteers and creative people dedicated to making theater of the highest quality to honor this 

We can give thanks that Quogue has been certified as one of the best schools on the East End—and in all of New York State—courtesy of the caring and committed teachers, administrators, support staff and the Parent Teacher Association all working together to create a truly superlative and nurturing educational experience, all while meeting or exceeding the highest standards of elementary school education.

Our village is blessed, too, with the aforementioned fantastic Quogue Library, which continues to serve as the cultural beating heart of the village, even while the major makeover of the library building is underway. Give credit for that to an enthusiastic and thoroughly engaged board of directors and an accomplished and helpful staff. The overwhelming support and vote of confidence that the library received for the project was clearly offered in recognition of the vital role the library has in binding our community together, across generations, different viewpoints and disciplines.IMG_4938

Another jewel of our village is the Quogue Historical Society, managing and curating the artifacts and accounts of Quogue’s storied history dating back to the 17th century for the benefit of young and old, today and for generations to come.FD walkway

On the northern border of our village sits another reason to be thankful: the Quogue Wildlife Refuge, where—thanks to the Southampton Town Wildfowl Association, the village, the town, and thousands of supporters since 1934—all are welcome to wander and experience and learn about the unspoiled natural beauty of this area, the flora and fauna and hundreds of direct links to the spirit of Quogue’s past. 


Fairy DellAlthough the Westhampton Garden Club doesn’t have our village name in its title, Quogue is clearly ever-present in the hearts and minds of its members. The WGC established and maintains all the public gardens in Quogue, including the flowers and greenery at the Village Green; the historic garden at the Quogue Library; and the Butterfly Garden at the Quogue Wildlife Refuge, calling attention to “The Pollinators” and threats to the monarch butterfly and bee populations, among others. For the last two years the WGC has also brought renowned speakers to the village, offering engaging and compelling programs that have packed the Community Hall. 

Need more? How about the Quogue Association? Nothing inspires gratitude like the efforts of a group of people who get together to inform, educate, and do good works based on a shared love for the place where they live. IMG_4932

The beautiful, tree-lined “business district” of our village, on Jessup Avenue and out to Montauk Highway, has never been more vibrant, with a wondrous makeover of the Quogue Country Market, shops offering a range of goods to delight all ages and tastes, and even the beautiful private Quogue Gallery, where an opening reception is scheduled this weekend, on Saturday, November 30, from 5 to 7 p.m. for a new exhibition featuring the work of “Quogue in Common” artists:  Claudia Baez, Geoff Disston, Peggy Flaum, Pieter Greeff, Lulie Morrisey, and Victoria Sartorius.

Continue with the checklist: The Post Office, the Board of Election volunteers, the Village Dock and boat launching ramps, the expanded Village Beach facility and the drawbridge that provides access to it, the Quogue Cemetery Association: all of these places and institutions and the people who work for them and who make them work so well: all of  these contribute essential and cultural services, texture and color to make Quogue truly beautiful, and unique. 

At Quaquanantuck is aware that these are the most obvious elements of life in our village that prompt our gratitude. For a more nuanced view, it is hoped that readers will send in their thoughts about—and/or photos of—things about living in Quogue they are thankful for. Please send to, for possible publication in next week’s column.img_4585.jpg

On a personal note, At Quaquanantuck is sincerely grateful for the number of people who have shown their appreciation for this column by sending in payments ranging from $60 to $300 for voluntary one-year subscriptions to a weekly posting that they could easily continue to access for free.    

Seeing so much misfortune everywhere one turns, so many forced to flee their homes in countries around the globe, and so many challenges facing so much of the world today, may we all be ever mindful of all the natural beauty and all of the many blessings we share in this village as we celebrate this holiday of gratitude. Happy Thanksgiving!

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